After all, the truth is that how you conduct your dating life is your business, and there is no valid reasoning to support slapping a value judgment on how you do so. And yeah, I realize that doesn't stop the "mainstream" dating advice crowd from telling you one thing and the PUA "bootcampers" from telling you the exact opposite…as if each respective side's mutually exclusive viewpoint was "absolute".
You'd think there's no middle ground.
And really, you never, ever hear about how to handle any potential PROGRESSION from dating multiple women now to possibly selecting one for a more stable relationship later.
From what you read out there, it really is made out to be an "all or nothing" deal. You're told either to go sarging as much as possible and hopefully build a collection of HB's contact info, or you're admonished to think more in terms of building a monogamous relationship from minute one.
Well, once again, welcome to yet another newsletter about a topic you've likely NEVER, EVER heard mentioned elsewhere.
To be sure, I'm not going to tell you IF you should have an exclusive girlfriend or not.
No pre-determined outcomes. No agendas.
Instead, just straight talk on how to handle the decision to go exclusive with a certain woman…or not.
Almost every day, it seems, I hear from guys who want to date lots of women, but have found themselves in a steady relationship they never really asked for explicitly. Or, I hear from guys with the opposite problem. They really want a great girlfriend and someone to build a future with, but having focused on pickup techniques they're left wanting when it comes to relationship management skills.
Well, today I've got your back on this issue.
Here, in simple English, are three UNACCEPTABLE reasons to make a woman your steady girlfriend, followed logically by three OUTSTANDING reasons to go exclusive:
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